Everybody wants to drive their partner wild in the bedroom, but men can be shy about vocalising what they really want during the act.
According to research, guys are keen to spice things up by trying different sex positions, dressing up and experimenting with sex toys, but they don’t always feel comfortable discussing what turns them on.
We spoke to sexual health and wellbeing expert Samantha Evans for advice on how ladies can unleash their inner sex kitten.
The sexpert, who co-owns online sex toy retailer Jo Divine, shared her handy pointers on how to please him so you both have the best sex of your lives.
1. Talk to each other
Open up a conversation about what makes you tick and what turns you on sexually. You may be pleasantly surprised about what your partner fantasises about.
Just talking about them with your partner can turn you on.
2. Stop worrying about your body
Men are attracted to the whole package so become more confident with your body. Loving the way you look will make you irresistible to your partner.
Being sexy isn’t always about being beautiful, but confident, so try wearing beautiful lingerie just for yourself.
Knowing you are wearing sexy knickers will give you a cheeky smile all day long.
3. Make the first move
Men love it when women make the first move, so initiate sex and take control. Take your time and set your own sexual pace to increase your own pleasure.
Making your partner wait will only fuel his sexual desire too. Tell him what you love him doing to you and how to make it feel even better. Ask him what he likes too.
4. Change it up
Make sex more fun by having it in other places, either inside or outside.
Have a steamy shower, soaping each other with perfumed soaps or oils. Try having sex in the morning to keep you smiling all day or arrange to meet for lunch to have a midday quickie.
Invest in a full-length mirror to enjoy watching all the action.
5. Dress to impress
Experiment with dressing up to boost your sexual arousal. If a man in uniform turns you on, get your partner to dress up.
Why not meet your lover at the door dressed in a tight skirt and blouse with stockings and killer heels to get his juices flowing?